Spend More Time With Your Family This Holiday
Season Host A Caroling Party
by: Rondi Hillstrom
Davis and Janell Sewall Oakes
Too often we forgo
entertaining because of the mere thought of all of the
preparation that is involved. And more is not better.
Often we try to out do each other with lavish parties and
expensive gifts. Stop and remember for a second what was
important from your own childhood. Was it an outing? Baking
cookies with your grandmother? Building a snowman with your
dad? We need to connect. This
doesn’t require more time, just shifting the focus of the time
we already have. Here, a casual party and a very simple
activity were the catalyst that brought everyone
together.
To get the entire neighborhood into the Christmas spirit we
planned a caroling party.
The day before our guests arrived, my kids and I spent an
afternoon making decorative candleholders to give to each
caroler, to light the way for our caroling expedition.
Dad, dressed as Santa, provided our very own photo opportunity.
Little ones whispered their Christmas list in Santa’s ear.
Grown ups, as well as kids, had their pictures taken in Santa’s
lap.
Adults, kids, and even a few dogs then joined us on our merry
way. Our numbers grew as we made our way caroling through the
neighborhood.
As the carolers returned, we welcomed them with Mexican hot
chocolate and ginger spice cookies. This party was a great way
to engage everyone in an activity that the whole family could
enjoy. And for a few short hours we were able to turn our
attention away from the commercial marketing of the holidays to
something much more personal.
Recipe: Mexican Hot Chocolate
Recipes are one of our most cherished traditions. Passed down
from one generation to the next, they conjure up memories of
holiday preparations or time spent with a favorite relative.
Cooking provides a quiet time to pass on the wisdom of family
lore.
Ingredients:
4 cups whole milk
4 ounces Mexican chocolate such as Ibarra
or
3 ½ ounces semi-sweet chocolate plus 1 teaspoon cinnamon
4 tablespoons sugar
Pinch of salt
1 teaspoon vanilla, preferably Mexican
2 eggs
1. In a medium sized saucepan, heat the milk over medium heat
until scalding.
2. Break the chocolate into pieces. Add to the hot milk along
with the sugar and salt. Stir until melted. Beat with a wire
whisk until frothy.
3. Add the eggs and vanilla. Continue to whisk.
4. Pour into 4 mugs. Garnish with a cinnamon stick.
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Rondi Hillstrom Davis and Janell Sewall Oakes are the
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